april ins and outs

if you had a themed party tomorrow, what would the theme be?

Happy April friends! I hope you are having a beautiful Sunday. Next week, a content-filled media rewind will land in your inbox. But, today, I am gifting you a short and sweet collection of ins and outs. If you haven’t already, I implore you to revisit last week’s podcast episode about “Cowboy Carter” with Ruth Samuels and Noella Williams. It was such a delightful and informative conversation and your ears are missing out if you haven’t listened!

We are entering the fourth month of Tamia Talks! I can’t express enough how grateful I am that you subscribe to this newsletter and have supported this creative project. It is so fulfilling and exciting to create and write and is truly such a privilege to share all of those thoughts and ideas with all of you. I look forward to all that is to come.

Okay, ins and outs. <3

In

• themed parties

• adding “tomorrow” from annie to a spotify playlist

• thoughtfully packed lunch and a note to encourage yourself

• cheetah print

• civic engagement

• the family who kept playing “sexy and I know it” by lmfao to get their baby to stop crying on the plane

• audiobook when my eyes are weary

• sparkling water and a lemmy

• more pockets (for utility!)

• sleep meditation

• book club with your bestie

• dates (not the romantic kind, the food)

• reading all of the newsletters that contribute to my 20,000 unread emails

• brussel sprouts

Out

• overthinking

• that patch of water on the counter of a public sink that gets your shirt wet when you reach for soap

• forgetting to stretch

• staring at the sun (without adequate eye protection)

• passive aggression

• the man yelling profanities and insults about players into my ear at a basketball game (I’m sorry darling, are they paying you to speak?)

• comparing yourself to other people

• snow (i’ve had enough, get a grip mother nature)

• online shopping

• logging on twitter (X) and seeing that smoking duck and its extended family

• excessive screen time

• uncomfortable shoes (are you shocked?)

• killing potted plants (plant mother era loading)

Vibe of the Week

@bretmanrockI just want to be a part of Bulas world

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